Came across with question like this many a times. What do single people like me do? or you might have the feeling of loss and lonely. GET up single people!
Being single is fun and wonderful. Since i have been single 3 years now, and still counting. Wink. If you ever have the feeling of loss and lonely is actually normal. The feeling of not wanting to come out again to meet friends, isolate yourself in a room of your own. My advise to you, take it one step at a time. You can have all the time you want to be alone and since I have been there let me share my experience how I do it. Initially, the feeling lost and being very quiet attitude came to me. During this moment, I seat back a lot and realize the a lot of things such as how wonderful my parents were, feeling bad for sometimes raising my voice at them, funny moment, and some sentimental moment with them that I cried to myself most time.
Moving on from there, I started to have friends around me. CHOOSE your friend WISELY. haha. Ended up with only some friends that truly did not judge me but stood by me through all troubles. Many friends will want to come near you to get STORY and then leave but true friends they will always be by your side and share with you their support if not they will support you with words they have. I am counting my blessings each day many have left and the remaining is hand few and still I would say we are supporting and learning from each other in one way or another.
Life was much better after all the hard times and bad karma. I have begin to read books psychology of men and study about their nature and I could see it what a guy action. I have the answer for it. In the end, when my friends have bad times with their Guy they will look for me and I will explain to them what are the situation and how it happen. It became a group and discussion and now is like a group page among ourselves.
Being Single in this Semester break have given me the greatest time of all.
1) Manage to have all the time to myself
2) Cook for my family every weekdays and off on Weekends.
3) Improve on my cooking skills which mum and dad love my food
4) Cooking for Grandma everyday and serving her healthy and nice food that she crave so much every evening
5) Going to the market in the morning with grandma to buy fresh ingredients to cook
People might think i am silly enough to have my one month holiday to do all this, but think about it what are the other times that you could do all this if not when you are on holiday and break.
Many website or bloggers might say shopping, travel etc.... but what if money is the constrain.
It's been three weeks now I have been cooking for grandma. It place a smile on my face when she asked me what I cook. The feeling is just so so amazing.
Singles does not mean you are boring or lonely, it means you are having the time of your life before having commitment. Enjoy it while you can.
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