I remember taking her to the mall and she even shop with me for dresses. How brilliant my grandma was. That was like 4 years back in time.
I had an amazing day today. I finally get my feet to move the Samba. Its been so long and finally is here. My day even got better because mum finally realize what I was trying to tell her. I was please because I reminded my mum that life is a cycle.
Today makes it extra special for me. Grandma came to our house for dinner. She rarely come to our home for that. I remember when she first got her stroke attack, I insisted to take her to the chinese Medicine right after Classes. Usually it will take two hours and By the time i am home it will be 10pm. Grandma Condition finally gets better and she is able to walk better and move around. Thank God for the Courage! Today, grandma come to the house and we sat down and have proper dinner, we make her laugh, and she is happy. Its been so long since I see she smile so happily.
During dinner, back then she used to cooked for lunch and dinner, because I was close to her, i use to talk to her when she cooks and help out like a little chef to her assistant. When I am home from school, she cooks my Fav noodle all time and guess what, till now I am using the recipe she gave me and asked my mum to do the same and whenever i cook mum use to say my cooking just taste like grandma's. I remember having bad gastric while walking back from school, grandma quickly cook my favorite noodle and feed me the hot soup. I treasure the moment.
Today, she sat next to me, I slice the meat to pieces, my sister get food on her plate and mum get her the soup. Dad of cause the vege and the dish cooking. HE IS MY PERSONAL MASTERCHEF forever with love Daddy Cooking the BEST of THE BEST. Grandma is weak now and she no longer energetic like how she use to be. One thing about grandma, she stroke my hair like when I was a kid. Still Do!! I love having her around me so much and I know nobody will ever bully as she is with me.
I am grateful to Lord that I have the time and chance to show her love care and tender. Is nice to have my grandma with me! I enjoyed them really a lot.
Monday, July 30, 2012
Tuesday, July 3, 2012
Denials Land
Lately i have been working with the group in running and execution of the event. Promotional Items were good and to be very surprising, the students of the team make up of 3/4 industrial event industry players and most time is there to execute event. I am so happy that Our promotional items are launch, and the team are so brave to print without getting knowing of the Preview. Is exciting when people around the campus knows about the Event.
Sadly came to we know after all the promotional materials were printed, we were then told that the Alcohol Beverage company Logo were needed to be remove. Alright.
Very well, again question and observation came to my level of understanding. By removing the Logo does it make less people drinking? Or is just to make the instituion look more pleasant looking. I hate to say this but being in this country, Majority are in denial. In the campus there is this registered as commercial block, which is attach to the campus by seperations of the Lake. Well, in the commercial Area, Restaurants and Bars are Serving Alcohol beverage.
I do not understand what is the Different when the location and venue are the same. Is rather stupid to asked us get sponsors for the event and no one is attracted to those sponsor if we do not bring in alcohol beverages.
Be realistic. Student suppose to be expose to the real world rather than being blindfold to the reality of nature especially in handling event.
SO HOW MUCH LESSER DRINKER CAN THE EFFECT BRING BY NOT PLACING LOGO THERE BUT ALCOHOL BEVERAGE Company IS ONE OF the SPONSORS.
So which means you do not want to attract people to come for the festival. Is crazy!!! Madness and most of all brainless.!!!
Sadly came to we know after all the promotional materials were printed, we were then told that the Alcohol Beverage company Logo were needed to be remove. Alright.
Very well, again question and observation came to my level of understanding. By removing the Logo does it make less people drinking? Or is just to make the instituion look more pleasant looking. I hate to say this but being in this country, Majority are in denial. In the campus there is this registered as commercial block, which is attach to the campus by seperations of the Lake. Well, in the commercial Area, Restaurants and Bars are Serving Alcohol beverage.
I do not understand what is the Different when the location and venue are the same. Is rather stupid to asked us get sponsors for the event and no one is attracted to those sponsor if we do not bring in alcohol beverages.
Be realistic. Student suppose to be expose to the real world rather than being blindfold to the reality of nature especially in handling event.
SO HOW MUCH LESSER DRINKER CAN THE EFFECT BRING BY NOT PLACING LOGO THERE BUT ALCOHOL BEVERAGE Company IS ONE OF the SPONSORS.
So which means you do not want to attract people to come for the festival. Is crazy!!! Madness and most of all brainless.!!!
Monday, July 2, 2012
Women should get married after 30 or before 30
I came across some article lately, it caught my eyes when i read them. Interestingly this two separates article kept me so awake the whole week long.
Believe it or not, in my opinion marrying after 30. Joy Chen a famous author of the latest china book called Get married after 30, have given me the summary of what life is all about. With her inspiring write up in English, I could not wait any longer for the English book to be publish.
Common question among society have create the pressure of relationship, where once a boy and a girl can be good friend and best friends. Now it derive from the origins of the simplicity of innocent relationship. I come from a Chinese family with English speaking home background, nevertheless my mum and dad will have the ideology of themselves in seeing me marrying someone same race. Now here is the big question mark for me which I am 24 years old only.
1) Do they see beyond the race if that guy were perfect for me?
2) Same race being life long partner, how on earth does it linked to for me and my future partner to build a home without chemistry but just the matter of SAME RACE?
3) Curiosity driven even more, when I question myself, can I settle with a guy with what my mum and Parents like instead of someone that I choose that have the same wave length of Understanding?
4) When I question back, Mum do you mean all same race people are good? Her answer was most of them are far much better than the Not Same Race. How could that be when she don't even take her time to know a person. [Prejudice Community]
This is what she said to me when Now I am 24. I find it hilarious as I was born normal, eat the same food like she gave my sister and She finds me weird in a way. May be I am westernize in Mentality.
Out of Curiosity I have asked Mum how about me marrying Latinos, Westerners she then say er mm... I STILL PREFER SAME RACE. Whoa...
With the answer, I sat down and start thinking to myself, very well same race easier to have chemistry? I Was once in this same race relationship, trust me it was way much more worse than the others that I have. Er mm I proof to myself that this statement cannot be function.
So finally when I came across books of Joy Chen, I realize something in the book which i do not have and the people that Attracted to me was GAME BOYS if not MENs which are sick and insincere. Is about the confidence and stability in terms of financial stability that guys will feel secure to date you because the material world today are driving people mad. Guys knows that if you are secure in terms of monetary, definitely they will have more guts to date you because they do not need to worry about Buying the Prada and Gucci that you have aimed a Boyfriend would buy. Instead, the relationship will have more on a focus point where companionship and chemistry that needs to work on. And When you have the confidence in financial terms, there is nothing much to worry, I think because of the Good Vibes , you then attract LOTS more good MEN and the Gentlemen that we always wanted and looking for.
Besides, 24 and when I am off to work, my life is 6 years to 30 which means I NEED to get Married?
I used to think back then, why guys like this, am I not good enough? you know that guy, he is m heart and soul. bla bla bla.... To a point, I come to realize, Being single enables me to dates as many as I want, to date 4 person in a go, and to have more different kind of experience in relationship and that make me even know more what I want in life. I can travel, I can meet so many different people across the world.
To single sisters out there, You are not alone who felt this, is just that I realize it now rather than getting into pressure of getting married and regret later. A reminder that HATCH into my Head: NEVER SETTLE FOR MR. WRONG
Believe it or not, in my opinion marrying after 30. Joy Chen a famous author of the latest china book called Get married after 30, have given me the summary of what life is all about. With her inspiring write up in English, I could not wait any longer for the English book to be publish.
Common question among society have create the pressure of relationship, where once a boy and a girl can be good friend and best friends. Now it derive from the origins of the simplicity of innocent relationship. I come from a Chinese family with English speaking home background, nevertheless my mum and dad will have the ideology of themselves in seeing me marrying someone same race. Now here is the big question mark for me which I am 24 years old only.
1) Do they see beyond the race if that guy were perfect for me?
2) Same race being life long partner, how on earth does it linked to for me and my future partner to build a home without chemistry but just the matter of SAME RACE?
3) Curiosity driven even more, when I question myself, can I settle with a guy with what my mum and Parents like instead of someone that I choose that have the same wave length of Understanding?
4) When I question back, Mum do you mean all same race people are good? Her answer was most of them are far much better than the Not Same Race. How could that be when she don't even take her time to know a person. [Prejudice Community]
This is what she said to me when Now I am 24. I find it hilarious as I was born normal, eat the same food like she gave my sister and She finds me weird in a way. May be I am westernize in Mentality.
Out of Curiosity I have asked Mum how about me marrying Latinos, Westerners she then say er mm... I STILL PREFER SAME RACE. Whoa...
With the answer, I sat down and start thinking to myself, very well same race easier to have chemistry? I Was once in this same race relationship, trust me it was way much more worse than the others that I have. Er mm I proof to myself that this statement cannot be function.
So finally when I came across books of Joy Chen, I realize something in the book which i do not have and the people that Attracted to me was GAME BOYS if not MENs which are sick and insincere. Is about the confidence and stability in terms of financial stability that guys will feel secure to date you because the material world today are driving people mad. Guys knows that if you are secure in terms of monetary, definitely they will have more guts to date you because they do not need to worry about Buying the Prada and Gucci that you have aimed a Boyfriend would buy. Instead, the relationship will have more on a focus point where companionship and chemistry that needs to work on. And When you have the confidence in financial terms, there is nothing much to worry, I think because of the Good Vibes , you then attract LOTS more good MEN and the Gentlemen that we always wanted and looking for.
Besides, 24 and when I am off to work, my life is 6 years to 30 which means I NEED to get Married?
I used to think back then, why guys like this, am I not good enough? you know that guy, he is m heart and soul. bla bla bla.... To a point, I come to realize, Being single enables me to dates as many as I want, to date 4 person in a go, and to have more different kind of experience in relationship and that make me even know more what I want in life. I can travel, I can meet so many different people across the world.
To single sisters out there, You are not alone who felt this, is just that I realize it now rather than getting into pressure of getting married and regret later. A reminder that HATCH into my Head: NEVER SETTLE FOR MR. WRONG
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